I completely lost it.

[MissEm]

BB is an awesome community - and when it feels like one of us is being attacked, a whole bunch of mumma bears will jump to their defence.

And the newbies have to defend themselves while all the mumma bears suck up for eachother together? Is it really that cliquey?
Thankfully I have a thick skin and can take criticism quite well.
No one called me on my original post until after someone jumped on my second response, and in my second response I did elaborate and suggest talking to the daughter about what she did wrong. Maybe 'maybe' wasn't the word to use but I still do believe that her daughter should be spoken to about her behaviour, even though I did not express my point on the issue clearly.

Thanks to those who did get my point

Look, its a sensitive topic for me. I grew up with parents who blamed me for their actions. They were never wrong. And they still never are wrong. It has affected me tremendously. I think it is very important that the actions of the daughter and the actions of the mother are addressed as separate issues.