Thx so much for ur reply hun
there is alot going on at the moment. . im still at home living with my family for the time been. they dont support how i raise dd eg co-sleeping etc and my mum seems to think that, my style of parenting is to blame for her being so clingy and anxious

im trying to find more time to reasure dd but i just dont no ..
the hitting pinching thing seems to be gettibg worse but can seem to find a solution.. i know she understands no but pushes the boundaries lol