hun, i dont have any great words of wisdom tonight, but while I was reading about your DD1 I was thinking its so the same as my DS was behaving 18 months ago, then I looked at your DD1's birthdate and she is about that same age. DS is wonderful now, can be left alone and not wreck a single thing, so its just a really hard testing stage (I actually asked my XH to take him full time at one stage, thats how much I wanted to run away)

Hope you can get a breather very sooon xxx