Nowhere else to go, and the peace we had last week made no improvement. And his mother sides completely with him in that "he works so hard" and when he's on his weekends off "he needs to rest", forget her help there. At least if he ever threatens in the event of dicorce that he's going to go for custody, then I've got "but you work too hard and you're too tired to cope with the kids now, how could you cope on your own" to throw back at him.