i feel like i am being manipulated what would u do?

[bubno.3]

If this is in the wrong spot please move it....

I have 3 kids with 2 dads.... I was married to one of the dads (we had the two youngest)

My ex husband very quickly re 'defacto'd' after i left and the women brought a 10 yr old into my two boys life... 12 months on and behaviour from my 4 yr old was getting very violent and i was thinking he had something majorily wrong psychologically..... anyway it was brought to my attentention from my ex that the new womens child has severe behavoural and psych problems...my ex wanted to swap the 50 50 weeks around as then all the kids wouldbt be together etc etc.... i have another child whos father doesnt co operate much anyway and i happened to take him to court for a court order for every second weekend school holidday and easter etc.....

When i heard about what happened to my two little ones on xmas day night i was adament and said move the weeks as im sure one single bloke could and would agree to re arrange the weekednds if i explain.... mmmm NOT happening at all...

i was told today by my 12 yr old gma .. obviously your ex husband didnt think about the up heaval of 3 kids and he expected you to 'ignore' your court oders but his new women son got no reprimand and the court order they have on him wasnt altered or questioned....

I said yes i agree

Now did i do the right or wrong thing here...... the ten yr boy has severe behaviour problems and since the moving the weeks and my ds doesnt see the 10 yr old the behaviour of mine has turned around bigtime.... so why do i feel like the biggest ***** or record atm....


ps it means for the time being i have two little boys one weekend and the 12 yr the other ...and it used to be all in sinc