BellyBelly Life Member - Love all your MCN friends
Jun 2004
The Festival State
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i am still in shock of his "must be a weak spot in the laminate" comment.
i know what a sheet of laminate costs
i know what a pain in the rear they are to install/glue etc
what an amazing reaction!
that is incredible!
everyone has buttons
and there are times they get pushed one too many times
we're all human hon
i have yelled at the top of my lungs LEAVE ME THE F ALONE at a crying, tantrumming, banshee bilby - when all my buttons were on about 11. Good on a Marsall amp, not good on me!
i am very ashamed of that reaction, nothing, even living on two hours sleep per 24 hours (at the time) excuses my behaviour. but i did it.
i did a parenting course either around then, or just after (the incredible years), which taught me some valuable "tools" to deal with the very demanding toddler bilby + stuff i read about Attachment/Gentle Parenting. So things have improved out of sight.
I read of "punching pillows" for kids (instead of time out), maybe i need ME one of those, for when all my buttons are pushed.
we try so hard to be all things, to our kids, but being Super Mum is a tough gig.
I haven't thrown anything yet (banged some doors!), but my body is being very smug about the yelling I have recently curbed significantly...cos I've lost most of my voice and have a throat cold... :blush: Guess that forces the issue of taking yelling out of my toolbox!
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