I feel like I'm just not cut out to be a mum. I try so hard but every day I feel like I've failed. I struggle so much with everything. I can't keep on top of it all. I want to be a fun mum. DS is especially jealous & possessive & it's driving me nuts. DD is starting to show signs of jealousy too. So basically if I'm holding one or paying attention to one, the other starts screaming (DD) or being deliberately naughty (DS). DS hits DD & pushes her. He gathers all his toys (& hers) in a huddle so "DD no touch em". I have no idea how to encourage him to share. DD is a very generous little soul & readily hands over anything she has. When DS won't play with her she gets so upset. I realise all this is probably very normal behaviour for a 3yo so I'm not too worried. I just don't know how to encourage the "right" behaviour. DD is teething & is constantly standing at my legs to be picked up. Which I do as often as I can but it's not always possible. She screams if I move away. DS has to be constantly attached to me too. I have to do everything, not daddy & if DH tries, it ends in a tantrum. If DS wants to do something himself & I don't anticipate it & do it for him, it's a tantrum. I'm so sick of the screaming! I realise it's probably all normal but I'm so sick of feeling useless. I am a good mum I know, because my kids are happy (usually), well fed, active, polite & clearly love me lol. When does it end! Please don't say when they move out. I always thought having little kids would be more fun. It feels like nothing but constant hard work ATM. Sorry this is so jumbled, I'm writing down my thoughts as they occur to me.