Thanks lilima - we have had some better days where she copes much better then some rather ordinary ones. Turns out the school bell scares her in the morning??!!! Anyway we have sorted a routine for saying bye when it rings and her joining her class line. We are also off to get a white board for a weeks plan - so Monday PE/MUSIC Tuesday LIBRARY etc and so she can cross the days off as we go along.
OSHC was better on Friday and she has met some bigger girls who she was sitting with - hoping they are all there next week.
Onyx - thanks for that suggestion, I will check it out. She never sleeps well and I am sure this is not helping either.
So all in all - much better and I guess with signs we are all getting used to the new routine!