Please someone give me some of your wonderful tips and advice.
My 4.5yo is killing me
I thought I had it under control, really I did but now I have not!
Her room is a mess, has been for THREE friggin days, I refuse to clean it (ok refuse is not the right word, but trying very hard not to give in!!!) I have taken things away she is left with very little, but a mess none the less.
How do I get her to clean it?
This is payback for my messy room as a child I JUST KNOW IT!
Anyone have any wonderful tips???

While we are at it...Backchatting? How do I stop this?
I am so scared about having the naughty child I can not control
Help!