Great ideas Sloane, Kylie, Black Rose and Miss E... I will pitch them to DH when he's home in a few days! I reckon he will be on board when he sees the benefit for us (eg, calmer Mummy, dinner and unwind at 7:30pm instead of 9pm!)

Taurean... you were so right. All I've done for the last 2 nights is increased her night bottle to 300ml. She's drinking all of it so she obviously wanted it but more to the point she's going to bed A LOT more happily and going to sleep quietly. Might be a coincidence but I think it's the milk that is helping.... Thanks!