it really does sound like you're doing a great job!

we ate dinner quite late until DS was about 18 months & we could all eat together - now he goes to bed 8-8.30 so we can do dinner at 6-6.30 & then he has his bath. if you can change things around so you eat together it is good.

i found with two naps a day we used that middle-period of the day as the time to leave the house. DS does swimming lessons & playgroup & we've also gone to storytime at the local library. some councils run monthly or bi-monthly craft/activity days. some days we used to just go to my parent's house for lunch - just another chance to be with other people & get us (me!) out of the house.

i think once she can move that she'll be less clingy & there'll be even more activities that you can do.

oh - we have a sandpit that DS likes as well. and it breaks up the day to have some time outside