Having worked in a Drug and Alcohol Clinic, I take the standpoint of providing my child/ren with the education that I believe should surround alcohol (and drug) consumption. I understand I may not be able to STOP my child/ren from consuming these substances because, let's face it, peer pressure can be pretty damn influential. So I plan to educate about the risks associated with consuming various substances. I will also discuss with them WHY people might like to take those substances and other ways they can achieve the same feelings without having to take that substance.

I will also maintain an open door policy. If they want to try these things then tell me. Let me know they want to use them and when, where they will be etc.

A part of harm minimisation is advising people to consume these substances in a safe environment with people they trust. In line with that, I will encourage DD to consume the substance at home. Once she is 18, I obviously have no issue her with having alcohol outside the home. But before that, I would encourage her to have it at home. If she was wanting to consume illegal substances, I would very strongly encourage her to only consume it at home - where I can keep an eye on her and keep her safe.

Hopefully by giving her education early on, she will make the decision to not buy into the peer pressure associated with these substances. And if she does decide to indulge in alcohol, she will be sensible in her consumption.

MG