Am I being unreasonable???

[Winter]

The old 'make 'em think it was their own idea' routine, 99.

Too clever MadB!

[lise]

Thanks ladies for your support and advice. We had a bit of a chat and he agreed to come home earlier where possible, but he was very defensive even though I tried not to make it seem like an attack/criticism etc. Trouble is he thinks spending 30 mins per day with DS is fine and doesn't see a need really to change anything, so very hard to get him to think of anything himself!

A work in progress I guess...

Thanks again for your replies - at least I can stop feeling bad for being unreasonable