For me the downsides are:-

  • Mummy guilt definately mummy guilt (I am the at work parent while my dh is the stay at home parent) - I have truck loads of guilt, guilt when Im at work, guilt when I am at home.
  • No time to my self (like none at all)
  • How long it takes to do anything


But having said that I would not change it for anything, however my DH and I have decided that one is our limit