DS doesn't want me to stay in hospital with him

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My DS1 swaps between DH and me as to who he wants ... and I think also, both of our love is so common place that it's assumed - it's part of his world view - but getting comfort or reassurance from someone external is meaningful, because it's on top of what is normally there, ITMS.

So while sure, an instant kiss better or attention or cuddle from us is de rigeur, if I've been working longer hours he wants me, not DH - and not because I'm mummy, but because DH is always available, and is so attentive.

This isn't because you're a bad mum - it's because you're a great one, and he know you're always there, and always love him.