Our bed time for our nearly two year old (and 4 and 5year olds), goes,
Dinner at about 5/5.30pm, bath around 6pm, brush teeth, read 3 books with big brother and sister on their beds (one each- he will usually not sit and listen to all of the stories, but he comes and goes, playing quietly with things while we read, he is getting better at sitting with us though.) Kisses and hugs with DS1 and DD and either DH or I depending who is putting him to bed. Quick drink of water, Lights out (he turns it off) get into bed and DH or I lay with him sing 3-4 songs and stay 'til he's asleep (usually about 20-30mins until he talks himself out and relaxes). He sleeps in his own bed, but in our room next to us, up until about 6 months ago, he co slept and breast fed to sleep, but was happy to move to his bed with it next to us and has been slowly dropping breastfeeds (we're down to 1 every two-ish days ). DS1 and DD get songs too, but then they go to sleep themselves.