Thank you for sharing!
That is such a beautiful way to think about then enitre situation and your babies are so lucky to have you as their mum!

Just recently DH lost his grandfather, and we did the catering for the wake. Everytime that Miss M asked what we were doing, and why we were doing it. I told her that we were getting ready for Pa's party. And when she asked about why the party, I answered her with 'its a goodbye party to thank Pa for being part of our lives, because he had to go away for now.'

You are such a strong woman and mother!