Sunshine, Sue, thanks ladies. Means a lot.

Yules - I try to get her involved with him but she doesn't seem quite interested yet. Maybe an age thing?

I totally get what you are saying about her being number 1. I will try to remember that. She gets a lot of playtime with DH, I'd assumed that would be enough but I guess not... It's about me too right?

Mak - thanks, good to know it may work tonight with the door open. I'm worried she will get out of bed though, did your DD try that? What do I do if she does? Just put her back??

Olive - thanks hun. Might be trying that tonight too.

We were all awake at 4.30am today. DD was quite upset and calling out for daddy. He got her, I got DS who had woken for a feed. Not sure why DD woke up - at what age do they start getting scared overnight? Having bad dreams?

She was easy enough to settle and seems quite happy this morning. DH just got her to lie still for a nappy change with the promise of a sti let reward. Good tip thanks det!