It is so hard, isn't it.

I know I am guilty of this too at times. I try not to expect too much, but sometimes when you are fuggling the other younger children, then eldest is held to a much higher standard. I find myself asking my kids sometimes "how old are you?!?" or "Act your age!" And then realising they are all only very young still! The eldest is only 5yrs old! I do try to be more reasonable and check my expectations of their actions and understandings, but it is a constant struggle when your patience is worn and you are stretched thin between each child's demands.