I have decided I won't be introducing Santa as being 'real'. There will still be gifts, from me, but I won't go overboard as I don't agree with the commercialism that surrounds Christmas here in Australia. There will still be fun, anticipation and imagination, it can be all of those things without me having to lie to him about Santa. I am planning to spend some Christmas times overseas with DS's fmily (a country where Christmas is spent going to church, and spending the day with loved ones, and eating big meals and celebrating) and I don't want him to be ridiculed and teased for believing there is a bearded fat man in red who brings presents in the middle of the night. The other kids there will think he is an idiot.