Thanks everyone your replies have given me comfort. I figure I'll persist if I feel it may work & if I have the will & energy but not every sleep. I also finally made it to my new mothers group yesterday & their similar experiences has helped. I get very anxious about her sleep, that is whether she's getting enough, so I'm trying to chill a little more but push her if I can. She is so so close most of the time but almost forces herself to wake up even though she also wants to sleep. I had a laugh with DH cause she reminds me of my sister, our egg donor, who never wants to miss out on anything LOL.