Heh, I like your thinking N2L

Normally I would've just gone to showers, but to complicate matters the shower in her bathroom I don't think is sealed properly - the carpet in the hallway ends up soaked somehow. She actually prefers showers a lot of the time, so I'm thinking I could go the other way and let her use the shower in our bathroom as a reward if she keeps her bathroom up to scratch. She's usually only with us for one weekend a fortnight, so whole week arrangements are a bit tricky.

She remembered without prompting tonight, so who knows - maybe we're getting somewhere with the "serious talking to"

Thanks girls