We've been dealing with 4 deaths within a few months and I've noticed my kids are all coping with it differently. While my DS is a lot older than yours, the way he is reacting sounds pretty much like your DS. TBH, I have no idea how to cope with it either, I've been trying to be as loving and comforting as I can, which is hard when they're pushing boundaries but I kind of figure he's needing some kind of attention so I try to make it positive.

Huge hugs MadB. xxxx