we are in the same boat with our DD1. I am ATM putting it down to the stress of returning home from 7 months abroad and the waiting for the new baby. I also have a feeling that she is developmentally going through something massive and this is causing some confusion emotionally/hormonally for her. that said, i am at my wits end and have had to have a few teary moments to DH about it as it would seem that she is just so bored and unhappy to hang out with us (her whinges usually revolve around being somewhere/doing something/seeing friends etc).

i really do not have any advice just plain and simple 'solidarity sista' sentiments with you! I am at a complete loss and really have to work hard to maintain my cool with her constant discontent (which somedays can start the moment she wakes up...on those days it is usually because there is something fun on that day and she feels she is unable to do anything fun while she waits for the activity ITMS).