I guess that's our issue though Sorka - we are both looking at it from the child's POV but that's where we disagree. I think she will be much better medicated and she will be significantly happier and more settled. He thinks that it is better for her both in the medium and long term to learn to deal with life without meds. We've researched the particular medication in the past and its as safe as you can get with next to no side effects.

I hope you don't let him operate chainsaws either after meds TFB ;-)

I struggle with my own concerns that my baby is medicated, especially when I am interrogated by each and every bloody pharmacist that fills a new script, so it makes it so hard when I have to battle DH's negativity too.