I will add that I don't think us adding argument or agreeing / disagreeing one way or the other would help either. Because our opinions don't matter.

In my life I an extremely avoid serious drugs for MY kids until absolutely unavoidable. I have my reasons; luckily, although my hubby doesn't feel the same, he understands and is accepting of my approach. If he were to be completely polar and adamant in his views, it would be hard. I don't think it would matter how much you 'explained' or how many 'outsiders' agree with you. I know that wouldn't change my mind. Because you need to find a compromise both of you are not totally unhappy with (even if neither are completely satisfied).

Good luck. I hope you can figure something out.