diotima

thanks that was helpful.
my kids are grown and at the time i did alot of
positive reinforcement
talking to them about what we do and dont do what i want and dont want
so that when they were in situations there was more chance of them doing what we wanted and not doing what we didnt want


now i regularly help someone close to me with their kids and their kids are a lively normal bunch. i would like to do my best again to work with the parents to support each other in reinforcing pos and reinforcing beahviours we want and dont want. otherwise any carers involved can end up quite overwhelmed and exhausted. thanks.