thanks at least im not alone in getting no sleep!
the changes to bedtimes were made a week and a half ago I thought she would have settled into it by now. As for outdoors play we live on just over 2 acres so the kids are always outside either playing or helping with the sheep, cows or chickens.
Once she gives in and goes to sleep thats it for the night since she started sleeping through a month ago but for 1-2 hours before she does go to sleep she will cry and scream. I tried the gentle parenting approach with her that didnt help at all so tried the CC approach that seems to be working better but i feel bad doing that.