I know how you feel lol. We have the newborn and the 2yr old and the 4 yr old getting into our bed. We even upgraded to a king size so we could fit everyone in but it is still squashy. Our girls have their own beds with flannelette sheets and heaps of blankets and I've even put hot water bottles in their beds but nope they still prefer mum and dad. I'm hoping they get out of it soon as it would be nice to have my butt actually in my bed on these cold nights lol.