sorry caro, i was responding to someone who was marvelling at how this woman got the babies to sleep in their own beds, so was assuming this was a problem for that person, i think it was ryn... (???) thats why i referred to it as a bad habit.... i would actually LOVE it if hollie would sleep in the bed with me, but sadly she won't... am hoping that when she gets a bit older she will learn to appreciate cuddles in bed!!

didn't mean to offend. i don't think it is a bad habit at all!! i guess it only becomes a bad habit if it has become a problem for the parents..

but i still do think some crying is inevitable when you take something that they have become used to away, like a dummy for example, which is why hollie at present is in bed sucking on hers!!