Hi Ladies,
I am going to upset you all by saying that I have done BW with all 3 children and have not had no problems with non thriving children. My children know what to expect, they know what is comimg next due to routine. I am not a perfect mum but I do feel that this book/program gives me direction and support. I use it as a flexable tool. I use common sense and look at the situation in context.
It's not for everyone but some parents and families may be suited to it.