We have gotten our 10 month old into some bad habits that i am really keen to break!

My question is, is it too late? Is a 10 month old so stuck in her ways that she cannot be changed into some kind of new struture?

She will not fall asleep unless she is on the breast...no matter how many times she wakes up overnight (could be 2, could be 5 or 6!), she has to have the breast to go back down...nothing else will do..she has always refused a dummy, and she has also never taken a bottle (even with EBM)..Dh has tried to settle her back to sleep but there is not way she will settle until we give in and put her back on...occasionally if we put her in the pram and rock her she will go back to sleep but i dont like to do this as i dont want her sleeping in the pram all night....

She seems to be terrifed of her cot... even if she is ast asleep and i transfer her there, she wakes up in hysterics...let alone trying to put her in awake! She has never really learnt to fall asleep on her own in there.... We have just come back from an overseas holiday where she slept in the bed with us, and so since we have come back, she just will not go in there at all...i used to be ok with putting her in there and letting her cry a bit, but she has learnt to stand up now, but can get herself back down, so i cant just leave her!!!

Any tips that have worked for you would be greatly appreciated!