thank you for such positive replies. I am feeling much better about it now.

I honestly had thoughts that the pead was suggesting that our son was Autistic because he did not securely attach to me as a baby. You know how back in the day disengaged mothers where blamed for Autism.

I hope it can shed some light then, Evan really struggles to regulate his own emotions & respond to them appropriately. So if it can help us help him with that then great. I was thinking that it would be aimed at teaching me when he is stressed & how I should respond. When really, he stressed ALL the time & I can tell when he slaps himself in the head!

Im in defensive mode I think because no one seems to have answers for us anymore.