OMG 3 BF's a day? And he's not even one? Gee I thinks thats really harsh. Do you feel that the amount of BF's he's having is an issue to you? If not, I'd just continue with what you are doing. The morning and afternoon tea is overkill I think, Jazz still doesn't handle MT or AT because its just too much! She feeds twice a day too, and she's 20 months so...

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, unless YOU think any of this is an issue (feeding to sleep, amount of breastfeeds etc) then I wouldn't bother stressing yourself out about it all.
When Jazz was 4 months I went to a MCHN, and she told me Jazz should NOT have been feeding to sleep anymore. Over the next month we stressed ourselves out trying to rock/pat etc her to sleep, only to realise that it really WASN'T an issue for us, so just went back to feeding to sleep. She has stopped that now.

Oh and there are some really good tips on giving kids more iron in foods... let me find a thread...