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  1. #1
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    Pm me nic xx


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    Can you PM the link too please...

    I find it hard to understand why anyone would work so hard just to make a child do something that is unnatural to them (i.e. sitting still for long periods of time), rather than working WITH the child and expecting something apporpriate for their stage of development (e.g. playing quietly or something...). But I'd like to actually see it before I comment any further.

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    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
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    What on earth is a tool of correction?
    I couldn't sit still for an hour like that, and asking your average kid to do it is just unreasonable.

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    What on earth is a tool of correction?
    I couldn't sit still for an hour like that, and asking your average kid to do it is just unreasonable.
    sounds like a smacking tool :-(

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    Can you PM the link too please...

    I find it hard to understand why anyone would work so hard just to make a child do something that is unnatural to them (i.e. sitting still for long periods of time), rather than working WITH the child and expecting something apporpriate for their stage of development (e.g. playing quietly or something...). But I'd like to actually see it before I comment any further.
    Just sending the link now.. Sorry I didn't see the message till now

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    it is a little upsetting but perhaps she is an EZZO fan? so while she loves her children and has a huge faith in her christianity she is choosing some not so "nice" aspects to parent with.

    i dont think everyone has the tools all the time to be the worlds best parents.. i am sure the kids will give it back to her at some point in the future..

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    BellyBelly Member

    Jul 2006
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    Nic could you send me the link too?

    thx!

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    Definitely not something I could do. I hate smacking my kids and I only tap DS with two fingers on his upper thigh if what he is doing is dangerous to himself or others. That criteria is applied by anyone that are allowed to discipline DS (My grandparents DH and I).

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    Nic could you send me the link too?

    thx!
    I tried sending you the link but your messages are full..

    Google vita familiae sit time.. That will take you to the sit time thing this post is about.. but is easy to navigate around the rest of the blog