Is there someone more experienced at riding who could do some work with him??
My sil is a born and bred country chick who has been riding since she walked she'd be happy to help but both my boys are 15.3hh and she doesn't like big horses

I could ask the trainer to come out, he has a thing for my sil so I reckon he's jump at the opportunity. But I'd feel bad if we did all this work and had him out and then BAM I fall preggers again.

I know I am being a tad unrealistic wanting horses and babies but it may take a while to fall in and I don't want fear to stop me from doing what I love and waste this time now.

am I making sense at all? prolly not but I didn't get them to just sit in the paddocks and i am by no means a quitter. I have ridden both successfully I know I CAN its just getting there.

Dee - You're right I need to do much more work with them. Can I ask why you'd go the QH first, he is the queiter of the two and thats why I am assuming you'd go him first.