Also, you may be too new on this forum to remember our dear Lucy....but let me tell you a bit about her. She cared about other people. She could also be very blunt. God, the number of times she told people (me included) to pull their heads in!! She clashed with some, but she was never malicious or anything like that. She just believed in non-sugar coated honesty. Not dumbing it down for people. That's what I've done for you. I don't think you're dumb and I don't believe in toning it down with huns and babes, because it's a serious issue. Lu told many people how it was, and those people walked away with something to think about. That was my intention, not confrontation.


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Prevention is better than cure and IMO they should absolutely be banned. No question for me.
our girl had been abused before we got her and was funny about a few things. She had bitten each of us at least once. But she weighed about five kilos and barely left teeth marks!
I can understand how conflicted you must feel.
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