thread: Time to say good bye to a much loved family member

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  1. #1
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    Sep 2011
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    oh I so related to your story just now. We just had to do the same thing last month with one of our dogs. Same thing, she was old and couldn't walk. We thought she'd have to be put down the week that we got home from hospital with DD and I was just an emotional mess. Fortunately, the vet was able to help her and we got another 3 months to be with her. It's never easy saying goodbye to a loved family pet and so many people without pets won't know what you're going through. My MIL didn't say a word the next time she visited and a lot of people asked how our other dog was going (yeah, what about us??). I'm really sorry that you're having to say goodbye. I chickened out at the vet and left DH with our gorgeous girl and the vet as I just couldn't watch. I guess everybody is different. Will be thinking of you on Thursday and sending you lots of strength and love.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    May 2012
    Perth, Western Australia
    322

    I'm so sorry you are going through this. Brings back painful memories of the ones I have lost in the past.
    It is so hard to be strong when you know what is coming... but unfortunately, it's the price we pay for the unconditional love that our pets give us for the VERY short time they are with us.
    I try to be there for them when they go... so that they can see how much they mean to me. it's not an easy thing to do but I feel as though I owe it to them for being there for me.
    Love and hugs to you... it's never easy. Just remember you'll get to see your baby again, fit and healthy and free, when you meet again at Rainbow Bridge...

    xxx

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  4. #4
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    Nov 2011
    Perth
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    Oh I'm so sorry big big hugs. Losing a pet just freaking sucks.

    Gosh I am bawling now. Thinking of you x

  5. #5
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    Nov 2004
    Melbourne VIC
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    We made the appointment this morning. I started bawling as soon as we drove into the car park so DH went in and spoke to them. He didn't make it out without crying.
    Booked in tomorrow at 4pm so I am going to be a complete mess all day. Yesterday she was walking around the back yard a lot (we have nearly an acre) and that took a lot out of her. By the time we fed her last night she could barely stand, and she just looks so sad and tired.

    I know we have made the right decision, but it doesn't make it any easier.

  6. #6
    Registered User

    May 2012
    Perth, Western Australia
    322

    Will be thinking of you tomorrow Megan... huge hugs...

  7. #7
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    Mar 2008
    North Northcote
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    Much love to you all, including your furbaby for tomorrow, it is never, ever easy, even in the face of certainty. Love is love.