Ive just returned from the hospital from being in there from 10pm last night till 8am this morning, Ive had severe bleeding since yesterday not just spotting, i mean enough blood it was running down my legs all over my feet, i had, had a constant what felt like a stomach ache all day so i decided it was time to call my midwife as surely this wasnt normal. I called her and she wasnt much help just told me to come in, As i arrived the nurses kind of pushed me aside as they were 'busy' i was standing as it hurt sooo much to sit down. As i was standing there a midwife came and asked me my problem. I was taken to a bed finally to find i had soaked my trackies with fresh blood (i even had a maternity pad on) was taken for tests and a U/S - to check bubs heartbeat, whilst checking my placenta they found that my placenta has come away.
atm the hospital said its not 'severe' but that if it gets worse to come back. Im on bedrest till im 36 weeks, then depending on my condition i will prob be given a c-section at 36 weeks.
I just know this would have something to do with all the usless stress im under. I cant believe i have put my own life and my babys life in danger for someone who doesnt give two effin hoots about us!
Then i send my worthless XP a msg letting him know (after a million regected calls) and all i get back is ' i dont care were only friends, im seeing someone else now' what the EFF does that mean!
Has anyone experienced this condition? Im so terrified ive let everything get the better of me.
so let me get this right, ur placenta is pulling away from ur uterine wall and they sent u HOME?!!?! WTF?! i would have thought that it would be cause for major concern????
please please take care of urself. when do u go back in to be checked on? go back in anytime u feel u need to and DAMAND to be seen to.
Big hugs and kisses hun
xxx
My goodness I really didn't think they would send you home so fast for this. Don't have any experience but just wanted to send you hugs.
Can't believe you xp, what an ass. Even a friend would care and be concerned! Hope there are some other people to give you some support as bedrest is going to be hard with Oscar runnign round if he's anything like my little man. Is there someone who can give you a hand?
I ditto what others have said. If there is any more bleeding, or if you are concerned about bub's movements, then pop back to the hospital. Uterine rupture is a real cause for concern and a well known pregnancy condition so if the hospital has sent you home you can be reassured that they do think you will be ok just now. Try to rest as much as possible and put your XP out your mind as much as you can. You need to concentrate on you right now and clearly he doesn't know or understand what the right thing to do is so get through the next few weeks and then deal with him.
Now might be a good time to gather your friends and family around you. A CS generally takes longer to recover from, and at 36 weeks there is a chance your bub may be in special care for a short while, so you may need childcare for Oscar, as well as physical support for you. Do not be afraid to ask your friends for help.
Wow so glad to read she's back in hospital. I am incredulous that she was sent home. I can't comprehend this but that's a whole other issue.
I hope that you are being monitored closely my love. Prayer and love being sent for you and your little one. Try not to focus on what the baby's father is like. He is what he is. Right now you need to be in the light so you can best grow this little one for as long as possible. Big big cuddles. xxx
Far out! I was shocked too that they sent her home but so glad that she is back at hospital. My sister had one during labour and her DD has cerebral Palsy because she was without oxygen for too long so it got me worried that they just sent her home like that. Fingers crossed that everything is all right for her and bubs
Woo thats scary but im glad they let you home. Must mean that they are not too worried. Sorry it also means that you will have to have a CS. I think that yyou should be proud that you knew something was up and you knew to get checked out! Others could have left it!
Good luck with the bed rest. I hope you have some help with DS1! **** the ex off for now, looks like he wont be at the birth anyway??
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- sending you lots of strength and love hun 
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