I was PETRIFIED of going to mothers group...walking in, I rang DH in tears saying "All their babies are going to be cute and perfect, and Will is going to cry, and they will all think I am hopeless"

But then, I went in, and other babies cried! And some mums were having a harder time than me, and some of them wanted MY advice...

I walked out of there feeling 50 foot tall, and like I wasn't so alone anymore. I even walked home with one of the other mums, and it turned out she lived in the next block of flats!

Our bubs were very close before we moved, and we became great friends, babysitting for each other, and helping each other out (we both ended up with PND)

Go to the first 2 and see how you go.