Hmm now all of her issues are coming to light through this thread... In the kitchen, she always wants to control me, i.e. "Carry me! Cuddle me!" always when I'm making our lunches & doing essential tasks... We bought a Learning Tower which she'll stay in for a few minutes. I try & engage her with whatever I'm doing & it works for a while, but in the end she always wants me to stop & carry her.
I feel like such a failure! Strategies always help others but never me.... I don't think I'm cut out for this job most days!
I remember being told that things would become better at 3 months, lol... Umm try nearly 3 years & still waiting... Things are different, but so are the problems... Things still suck, just in different ways! But I digress...