Far out Efjay, you should be an OT I should've thought of that as at each OT session, DS2's OT has a visual list of what he's doing during the session. Great idea. And no, not mean. We've tried that tack too but it doesn't work very well. DS2 is both a major attention seeker and a very persistant, tenacious little bugger. I love him dearly but my goodness, he's a challenging little boy.

Wysiwyg - you might have hit on something too. Maybe some classical music (which they actually like). Handel's Water Music Suite calms them down in the car almost every time I put it on!