I think it's a time issue too. I just don't have time to always let her 'spread the butter' etc. Sometimes yes, and we do have some good quality time when I'm not at work. At the moment it's asking for the toilet as we are almost out the door and then fluffing around in there for 15 minutes with no wees or poohs and just half a roll of toilet paper on the floor and 8 flushes later!
Andie, I have to disagree that she doesn't do things to annoy me! If I put emphasis on something that I don't want her to do (smacking in the face etc) she will immediately do it several times over. But if I just let her do it she will get bored and eventually stop. Even if it means half a roll of toilet paper on the floor.