PB - I am in a similar (but different) situation to you and I am so over people telling me 'you need to see a doctor' at the end of the day (in my case) I feel that there is nothing they can do so my decision is that I am not going to bother. This decision is such a personal one but I hope that hearing other peoples journeys can assist you in deciding what is best for you and your family.

I hope you get the answers you need and even more so a healthy little baby