My first baby shower didn't happen... Second time lucky?

[TeniBear]

No offence taken whatsoever, lovely ladies You haven't said anything I didn't already have swirling around my mind anyway

Maybe rather than acknowledge Ianto in the actual invitation, I could ask that people donate to Bonnie Babes or something in lieu of gifts? Some people will most likely still bring gifts (maybe even the ones they originally bought for Ianto) but it's probably better than ending up with a house full of stuff I won't use... Then again, I would like to receive some gifts I actually would use... Maybe I'll say "any gifts given that won't be used will be sold on eBay so the money wasted can be given to charity"

[aussienic]

I think suggesting a donation to bonnie babes is a great idea.. That way you are kinda mentioning Ianto.

Or even with the invites send out a little brochure from Bonnie Babies and don't worry about suggesting a donation.. kwim?

[TeniBear]

Okay, here's the "dry" wording, I'd like a way to make it a little more fun...

The babe dubbed Cookie is on the way, so please join us in celebrating his or her imminent arrival with a day full of fun, laughter, happiness and rainbows!
Tenielle’s baby shower will be held on the 29th of January at [address].
Please arrive by 12:30 pm so you don’t miss the start of the fun, and RSVP by the 8th of January so we make sure there’s enough fun to go around!
It would be appreciated if guests could bring a plate of food and/or drinks to share.
Each guest should also bring an apron and wear casual clothes, as there are a couple of activities planned that may become messy.