Pregnancy after Late Loss, Recurrent Miscarriage or Stillbirth ~ November 2010

**TylersMummy** · September 19th, 2011, 02:17 PM

Hi ladies a bit of a post about me..
Had a very big scare last night went to the bathroom and there was blood.. Not just a little bit a big bit I panicked and showed DF as he was making his lunch then showed mum I was told just last week if I had any blood or fluid to go straight to JHH mum said to wait 5 minutes to see if it went away.. Well it didnt and I passed a big clot about the size of a 50 cent piece. I showed mum and she said ok were going now, I burst out crying all I was thinking was "Not again". We got to the ED and was sent straight up to the delivery suite were they checked my bp which was a little high and checked my urine which was all good. The nurse checked for bubs hb which was there and beating strong so was a bit relieved that baby was still there. Mum DF and my sister left around 11:30 last night so I tryed to get some sleep, I had 2 doctors come in around 2 am , I had an ultrasound done bub was in breech and had plenty of fluid around her so they were happy with that. I had to have an internal to see if my cervix was opened or not and thankfully it is closed. They were happy with that and sent me home on bed rest for a few days. So I am a bit relieved and resting up and hoping that I dont have another scare like that

Just wish things werent so complicated..

**blessedatlast** · September 19th, 2011, 06:27 PM

TylersMummy - How scary for you. One would think after what we've been through we could have breezy pregnancies, but no. I'm so glad it turned out to be nothing. Take it easy..

I'm 24+2 today. The exact gestation I was when my babes entered the world way too soon. I'm so happy that Button is still happily kicking away in there!

Everyone. Hope you are all doing well.

**TylersMummy** · September 19th, 2011, 08:17 PM

Blessed - Ah yes I do too its sad but im glad that all I had to do was show my notes and they seen that I had already had Tyler so was seen and sent straight up to delivery. I was actually thinking you'd be 24+2 well im glad button is happily kicking around and that you are over the biggest milestone in your pregnancy hopefully the rest is breezy and you get to hold a bub in less then 13? weeks

Oh and we are having a little girl u/s this morning showed 2 very long stretched out legs with a wee girly part between her legs, and if its a boy well he has a very small pee pee lol..

**dory** · September 19th, 2011, 09:22 PM

TM - I am so so sorry that you had a scare - but you did get to find out you're expecting a baby girl! Yay!! Rest up my dear and be kind to yourself.

BAL - what a significant milestone for you. 24+2. Well done - Seth and Tait are keeping a very close watch over little Button.

Laney - how are you?

**LysnDan** · September 19th, 2011, 10:48 PM

Just checking in. I'll be 19weeks pregnant tomorrow and feeling Bub on a daily basis. I have my scan next Monday and I am so nervous. I just hope every thing is ok with bump. I just want a live take home bubba

Hope everyone else is well. X

**Laney** · September 20th, 2011, 10:52 AM

TylersMummy, how scary. I am glad that everything is okay, rest up! I wish that i could tell you that the worry ends.

BAL, what a huge milestone. Are you still on bed rest?

AFM, I had my 20 week ultrasound today. It is for sure another boy and he looked great. Now the tough part, coming up with yet another boy name...

**blessedatlast** · September 20th, 2011, 11:23 AM

TylersMummy - Congratulations on a little girl

If I deliver at 36 - 37wks, yes it's just over 12wks!!

Lysndan- I hope everything goes well with your scan. Yay for Bubba kicks

Laney - No not on bedrest anymore.. Not sure if I filled this thread in? Maybe I didn't.. The 2 subsequent scans I had after the 19wks scan showed a lovely long closed cervix. The Drs came to the conclusion that it was in fact mucous in the 19wk scan that caused the dark shadow bit, and it made my cervix look open. So apparently it never was open!! I'm really glad, but it was a bit stressful at the time! My OB is really happy with the way things are going. I can't wait to come off the progesterone though.. They are giving my poor vagina hell

The OB thinks I might be having a reaction to the coating of them.. I had a 4 night break and it was bliss!! No itching, soreness or discharge! But back on them now.. Only 4 more weeks though. I can come off them at 28wks!

Congratulations on a little boy! I think boys names are easy and girls names are hard. If Button is a girl we have no idea what her name will be!

Dory - How are you going? Over all run of illness? I hope so!

**TylersMummy** · September 20th, 2011, 12:55 PM

Dory - It was exciting I knew she was a girl but now its been confirmed had to have 1 good thing come out of something bad.. Im resting up but am hating being stuck in bed all day lol. How are you?

Lyns - Almsot half way there hun gl for your scan next week and hope the rest of your journey is complicated free and you have a little bub to take home in 21 weeks.

Laney - So am I and doing alot of resting lol, yes I wish that too but ah nope we cant just have complicated free pregnancies with everything our bodies have gone through. Yay your halfway there and congrats on another wee boy hope you and you DP come up with a name, and hope your scan goes good today.

Blessed - Thanks now we can start buying some pink things

. Yay not long and you'll have a gorgeous wee bub in your arms! I think I have about 15 or so weeks as im being induced..

AFM - Not much happening just resting up bit bored lol my cousin had her 2nd ds this morning via c-sec so a bit of good news.Df has been working for 4 days so far which means we will be getting a good pay this week so we can book our trip to Melbourne for his brothers wedding in November will be good to get away for a weekend. Not long and the school holidays start (oh no!!) lol we have DF's kids for the last week of them so he can watch his stupid AFL grand final by himself lol. Well im being well looked after DF made sure I was as comfortable yesterday even let me sit in his lazy boy chair while he sat on the couch.

**TylersMummy** · September 20th, 2011, 10:05 PM

Hi ladies I have a funeral to go to on Thursday and just found out tonight that the funeral home we have to go to is were I picked up Tyler's ashes from and the last place Tyler was..

Im a bit sad and am hoping that I can be strong enough to enter the funeral home again and hope that the family understand why if I can not go in understand.. If anyone could give me a little advice... It would be really nice. I know you ladies understand.

**blessedatlast** · September 24th, 2011, 12:12 PM

Tylersmummy - I only just saw this.. Sorry i didn't see it earlier. Not that I would have had much advice.. How did you go? Did you manage to go in. Not sure if I would have been.

AFM - 25wks today! Wow.. My weight gain has slowed down, but my tummy is starting to really grow.. I am making do with elastic waisted skirts and tights with singlet tops but I may have to succumb to proper maternity tops soon.. Why are they all black and white stripes or polka dots?? Lol

everyone, hope you are all well!

**TylersMummy** · September 25th, 2011, 08:10 PM

Blessed - No I didn't go in only cause none of the family did but I did have to go into the creamtorium were Tyler was cremated was hard I had a bit of a cry when I got out but other then that I think I handled it pretty well. Congrats on 25 weeks

not long now and youll have a beautiful bub in your arms.

AFM - I've just started getting very uncomfortable sitting up the only place I am comfortable is lieing down with extra pillows ah I feel so stretched and bloated. DF brought me a body pillow since I tackle him when were in bed lol. School holidays have started we have DSS and DSD next Sunday for a week hopefully I wont be as tried and bloated

. I have to cheer a little since the Warriors are in the grand final hehe they bet Storm. I have been craving caramello chocolate mm

little bub has been kicking me I am starting to feel like a boxing bag lol.

How are you other ladies doing?

**TylersMummy** · September 27th, 2011, 10:34 AM

AFM - 23 weeks today the gestation my waters broke and I went into labour with Tyler. She's quite happily staying in so hopefully the next 3 days go by fast.. Then maybe I can start enjoying being pregnant again.

**LysnDan** · September 27th, 2011, 10:42 AM

AFM - 23 weeks today the gestation my waters broke and I went into labour with Tyler. She's quite happily staying in so hopefully the next 3 days go by fast.. Then maybe I can start enjoying being pregnant again.

23 weeks already?? Time is flying for you

fingers crossed the next 3 days go fast for you and you have a very enjoyable rest of your pregnancy. X

**TylersMummy** · September 27th, 2011, 12:47 PM

Lysn - Yep its going by very fast it only feels like yesterday I found out I was pregnant. Thank you I hope that it will go fast enough that soon enough ill have a beautiful wee girl in my arms. Congrats to you too on being 20 weeks half way there hope the rest of your pregnancy goes by quick like this year is.

Anyone else thinking the year is going by fast? Soon enough it'll be xmas then itll be the start of a new year.

**LysnDan** · September 29th, 2011, 09:27 AM

Tylersmumny yep this year is going fast. Cmon Xmas... And new year. I want my baby safe in my arms in Feb.

And hubby passed his head cold virus thingy onto me and there's not a thing I can do about it

boo.

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