OMG you girls can talk, I'm not even sure how I'm going to catch up.

rhubarbandcustard - congratulations and welcome although I wish we were meeting under different circumstances. We didn't get organised until the last possible moment, hubby was still buying things while I was in hospital so your not alone with feeling like taking things slow with getting organised. If you want a homebirth though dory's right try to keep your options open, if you can, it might be hard but somehow you'll find the strength to organise it.

skybie - not long to go now.

TylersMummy - it sounds like you are Rylee are going great and the pooing through the clothes thing, though very gross is also very normal.

Laney - I can't wait to hear all about your newest arrival and hope you and the little one, and the whole family for that matter are doing well.

dory - we were offered a christening for Isabel but because we didn't go ahead with it I'm not sure if it would have been religious or civil. I'm so glad you're having such a positive experience with your councellor. If you're still thinking about a psychologist maybe talked to your doctor about a referral, somehow I'm able to get referrals from my doctor that make a set number of appointments free through medicare. Unfortunately even after 3yrs I still feel awkward and guilt and never know what to say about how many babies I have, you're so lucky to have found some amount of peace with that.

AFM and I'll keep it short, today this baby is the same gestation as Isabel was when we lost her and in less than 2wks it will be Isabel's 3rd Birthday. My iron levels are playing up even more than usual, to the point that the doctor is using scare tactics (which is unlike her) to take supplements even though she knows that's not an option. My care hasn't improved, so this time I'm trying to do everything without my psychologist and they wont let me have one of the extra U/Ss that I had with Kate.

I hope that covers most things and that I haven't missed anyone.