TeniBear, I struggle with the "is this your first child" question. Even after your bub is born everyone will ask if they are your first. I really have not had the courage to tell people that Grayson is my 3rd baby. It is mostly for me. I am afraid that if I say no I will break down into tears.
I have always felt very comfortable in the pregnancy after late loss thread. I have made some life long friends as well. It has been a little quiet lately but I hope the chatter picks back up soon.
Teni,
If it was me, I'd be saying no, it's my 2nd. If it's some random stranger, they don't need to know all the details. Let them think whatever they want to think. iykwim. (eg: He's being cared for, because you know he is.) If it's someone you know, they'd already know the answer.
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