TeniBear, I struggle with the "is this your first child" question. Even after your bub is born everyone will ask if they are your first. I really have not had the courage to tell people that Grayson is my 3rd baby. It is mostly for me. I am afraid that if I say no I will break down into tears.

I have always felt very comfortable in the pregnancy after late loss thread. I have made some life long friends as well. It has been a little quiet lately but I hope the chatter picks back up soon.