I don't mean to sound dismissive of your concerns, really I just want to say, I know how scarey and overwhelming it can be and I'm sending you light. M points out that we're lucky to have a good long gestation it helps you get your head around it!! .
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FWIW, you're not the only one who wasn't 'thrilled' upon a suprise BFP, but I wanted to offer my support in some way